The True Transformation Of Life

People in this world roam on the streets of life with a camouflage of happiness though suffering from eternal impediments. I am no new to those Homo sapiens. Born in the claws of affluence, I have never been cared by my parents with proper concern as they were always immersed in their busy schedule. Sometimes I used to mourn in myself when I encountered any problem in my school days but had never got a chance to express it with my parents. Tears rolled out from my eyes on every first Saturday of the month as it was a day when the parents are supposed to meet the schoolteachers, but instead my caretaker was sent along with me to the school on that day. Years have just passed away without an odor of contentment couldn’t bear this monotonic life and I decided to move away from the house. I realized that the dwelling in which I have been living since these days was just built on bricks of money but was lacking the strength of emotions.

Life was never easy for a man on streets without anyone on whose shoulders we could lay our countenance. When robberies and illegal trading was on the high in the society, I became a silver pot to the cops. They just accused me for every wrong thing and sent me to prison without any evidence. I couldn’t bare this humiliation and was utterly dejected for the insecurity in my life and made my mind to be away from this world forever. I walked briskly towards the edge of a hill and slowly looked at the bottom of my feet, it was a deep and bottomless valley; before I could think anything I pushed my feet away from the base making it no more possible to find a jetty. Within few seconds I was on the level zero with all my body colored with a red tint. I experienced a sense of drenching in the quick sand and slowly went to an unconscious state.

The moment when my eyes opened again and started to sense the world, I could make out that I was in the hospital and a lady was standing beside me talking to a doctor. She briskly came towards me and called the doctor when I opened my eyes. For the first time in my life I could feel a sense of happiness when I talked to her. Her soothing words fuelled up my heart’s engine and made it to beat again imbibing in me the thought of living. Her eyes, which I looked into, taught me the true value of life. Her nature helped me to regain and push up the confidence levels in me. Her smile instilled me to know the purpose of a person’s living. Slowly with her soothing words and caring deportment, I started recovering both physically and emotionally. Within no time we became very close friends and could find in her the elixir of all my worries. One day she called me for a treat, as it was her birthday, I couldn’t stop the merry spring jumping in my heart, the moment she invited me. In the twilight we both went to a near by restaurant and filled up our tummy until it said no more. After the dinner she got up from the chair to say me good-bye for the day and stretched her hand towards me, then for the first time I could sense the Devine touch of her. She threw a graceful smile at me and left the place.

Man is more ambitious to get more and more from life, the same is the case with me, don’t know whether the thought I got was justified to my position but couldn’t stop myself thinking against it. Since three days I was in a state of uneasiness and later could find out that I m in love with her, wanted to immediately express it to her but my heart restricted me for three days, couldn’t bear the pressure inside my heart anymore and decided to let my emotions by pass my body. I dressed up well on that day’s eve and held a red rose in my pocket and rushed towards her to express her what I feel. I went to her house fast but couldn’t find her there then when I was returning, I was stuck in a heavy traffic making me stick to that place for a period of two hours, when I moved a bit forward and peeped into the crowd I could make out that an accident had occurred restricting the traffic to move forward. I kept my bike aside and tried to have a clear glance of what actually had happened. But the moment I saw the picture there, I fell down at once on the floor. I couldn’t believe my self when I saw the vehicle of my gal on the floor. When I went a bit forward I noticed her body lying on the floor, which was drenched in the blood. Every hope and vitality was burned in me. I remained an empty vessel with no particular emotions and as a perfect exemplar of a stone. She has no death in my memories and the caring ness she showed is ever young in my tender heart. Her friendship and love transformed me from a failure struck carcass to an enthusiastic chap. I now don’t need any one to share my sorrows nor shower my happy moments on them because I always have an ever-flashy jewel of her memories. I never accept that I m unlucky in life because I found a wonderful treasure of her love which is always preserved in my heart for eternity.

My Sweetest Friend Priyanka

Coming along with the dusty winds clouds got heavy and it was as if they were very eager to touch the ground under them, the cold breeze slowly started becoming thick with the moisture, the much awaited rain showed its overture with a sound of a thunder storm. Droplets of water slowly begin to soak my countenance; here I got a chance to let out my grief and started crying in the disguise of rain. The reason of my mourn though being silly is sometimes heart touching too, the friend of mine who has become a part and parcel of my life was about to leave India for further studies. The time has come for the departure and something unusual was happening in my inner self, the tears in my eyes slowly slipped into my throat restricting me to utter a word.

Friendship such a wonderful feeling sometimes makes us laugh and sometimes pulls the tears in our eyes. No matter how many times we quarreled with each other but affection thrived in every single fight we had. True friendship doesn’t have any boundaries because its edifice is just built by the bricks of emotions prevailing between us. From the day she left India, my head was focusing on to the sky every now and then whenever a plane would pass away from my site thinking to send a message to her through it. Friendship is a boon to a person it is superior to every relation on earth. We can share everything with a friend, which we can’t sometimes even with parents or with our love.

The support our friend gives during our baleful times is just worth a million. Memories of the funny things we did were really a wonderful experience; sometimes we used to giggle hours together without a proper reason sometimes we used to fight on no definite grounds, time used to run away as a cloud in the storm when we were engaged in a conversation. The topics we used to speak on were such versatile that we often used to start a debate on them. I still remember the day when she patted my back when I was down and I still do remember the day when she didn’t wish me first on my birthday. Sometimes she used to compare herself as an actress in a film and I used to tease her that she is no near to a clown. No matter how many misinterpreted our relation we still are proud to be one of the best friends in this world. Friends need not be near to each other but the thinking and memories of them are always bonded in their hearts. Pages are not sufficient to express my gratitude to her being my friend. God is always showering her sweet wishes on our friendship and I m with concrete confidence that our friendship would always flourish like the tides in the seashore. Wish she would settle well in her career and would get an understanding partner in her life and also I do wish our friendship continues for eternity

The True Purpose of meditation

We start our day with a hectic schedule running in the race of time chasing our targets, right from the time when sun rises to the twilight, we constantly encounter many people, vehicles and their noises. The world we live in is constantly bombarded with loads of catastrophic sounds. People are now in search for serenity in their lives, meditation is one such activity through which a person can fetch mental balance in this busy world. Meditation makes a person relax and think for a solution in the state of trauma. In the initial stages when a person starts meditating he feels very uncomfortable, he gets the thoughts of all the materialistic experiences he had encountered. But as the saying practice makes a man perfect, he slowly gains wisdom and mental stability during regular meditation. The process of meditating not only gives us a mental serenity, but also sometimes acts as a medicine to our ailments. A person who meditates can know his own body functioning, he can visualize all the movements and functions that are performed in his body thereby he can know what is the route cause of his illness. There are experiences of people who have even seen how their heart functions and how air is entering and leaving from their body during the process of meditation.

But patience should be the prerequisite for meditation. We can’t achieve everything by just a regular practice of it. We should implement what we learn from it; let me explain a bit more clear. There are people who just casually practice meditation as a daily routine but at the end of the day they don’t try to implement what they learn from it in their life. If a person who wanted to control his anger through the means of meditation forgets his motive after he has done meditating, there is no point in practicing meditation. When we have an aim or a target in mind we also must have an ability to withstand situations, which deviate us from our target. Choosing a right path to fulfill our aim is not a great achievement but making our mind to implement what we learn is very important. When we meditate our mind is supplied with all the necessities to achieve what we aspire for, the prime motive of us from then should be to focus those necessities for the fulfillment of our endeavor. Meditation is one such art, which fetches its benefits only when we try to implement its objectives in our daily routine.

Playing games worth(full/less)

My feet couldn’t find a jetty; I was in the air for quite a long time blood was rushing through my nerves at a lightening speed. Suddenly with a huge blow I was hit by a bike, which was aiming to target me since a long time. Couldn’t control myself and fell deep into an abyss beside me. Suddenly sensed something unusual, later I came to know that I was in a dream until then. To my surprise when I opened my eyes I was below my bed, but couldn’t believe myself experiencing all the adventure in my dreams.

Dreams are really wonderful sometimes and also thought provoking too, but the reason behind getting such dreams is the simple influence of what we do all the day before we get back to siesta. People especially children and youth are now a days engaged to the video games and some are so crazy that they even buy some gadgets for playing these highly sophisticated games. Now when they play such games all the day especially the racing and the fighting games, their mind will be indirectly developing an inclination to such environment. So when they go to bed the same games peep into their dreams creating mental stress.

I still remember the day in my childhood when I hit my sister who was sleeping beside me, imagining myself being a boxer in the arena. Playing games is not at all a wrong idea but engaging the whole day in these games restricts our brain to think about new things and gradually we loose our creativity. Since our childhood our parents constantly be back of us not to watch too many films this is because our mind is inclined to bad things in the films than the good mess oriented things, same is the case with games too playing too much of violence oriented games imbibe in us the bad qualities of it.

But some games are very much useful for enhancing our reasoning skills among them are the games like jigsaw puzzles, Sudoku, cross word etc. These develop in us the quality to think differently in different circumstances. And they also develop a decision-making ability in us. So developing the habit of playing or at least spending half of the time that we allocate to the 3d and animated games may definitely be fetching in terms of our thinking and reasoning.

My First Verse

You were the ester I was the fragrance

Bonded we are in the friendship confluence

You became a source of happiness in my mournful times

We both were roving in life singing our friendship’s rhymes

Can’t imagine my verve without the glucose of your closeness

Can’t suppress my nerve, which always show our imminence

You were the ester I was the fragrance

Bonded we are in the friendship confluence

Buried deep beneath in the earth of time, you still extended your hand

Filled the emptiness in my life and made me comfortable in this new land

Sweetness adjective is just not enough to describe your words

Friendliness in your support doesn’t require proof or accords

You were the ester I was the fragrance

Bonded we are in the friendship confluence

I can’t imagine the tranquility when you leave me alone

Please be with me always like the star near the moon

Because we may get people who may become our pals in no time

But to get you is very hard as u imbibe in memory as a musical chime

You were the ester I was the fragrance

Bonded we are in the friendship confluence

Recuperating From My Past

Once in my lifetime when I was traveling through the storms and whirlpools of my dreams, you extended your hand to support me to expatiate my goals. You were the one who shore up when I was deluded in my race; moments of suffering became ladders for my future moves with the encouragement I got from you. I contemplated our friendship would never become dreary like the sun, which always shines bright in the sky. But couldn’t envisage that the sun too loses its significance at the hours of darkness. Jealousy that people once had on our relationship is now changed to a feeling of sympathy. Everything, which I once did, was well appreciated by you, but anything I do now is considered as foolishness. The days when you were angry on me were far better than the silence prevailing now between us. Don’t know whether the storm of time wiped away the memories of me from your heart, but still they are glittering like gold in my thoughts. I pray god to give me a time machine to get back your sweet friendship incarcerated in the claws of time. “Time is the healer says many” but “Time has become a barrier” in my life separating me from your sweet friendship.

I m not here to tell you my dear that I m back of you all the time pointing your mistakes, I m here to say that lets not loose ourselves in the disguise of busyness. There were people who came into my life to separate me with my pals but they couldn’t succeed because our friendship was as hard as a granite rock. I still remember the days I was tortured badly by their evil deeds, but god is there who always try to bond me with all my pals. Wrong steps in life are very dangerous sometimes, career of mine was walking on a tight rope due to the ugly companion, which I once had. But when I realized what is right in my life, I was already dragged back miles from my destination. The stupid gullible nature I have is the cause of all the wrong in my verve. Friendship is not always fruitful with everyone but flourishes well only with some special ones. Cant try to forget all the dark fragments of my life, but hope those days never come again in my future.

Friends are like flowers, which are beautiful to look at, but sometimes we encounter dreadful flora with attractive deluding attire. The venom they pass into us sometimes gets clouded in our mind restricting us to thing what is right and what’s wrong. Sometimes I pity myself when I think of my past, I lost many things, which I supposed to have in my memory treasure. I still remember when I was aloof sitting alone in the tranquility when every one of my pals was enjoying the outing. Tears are just dripping from my eyes thinking of my dark times in life. But still I m now able to recover from the torments I faced in the past. What I want to convey is never be fooled with the sweet words of people nor their attire, I know we cant guess the mentality of the person in the first instant but try not being carried away by their cheap disguises.

Carton Of Memories

The twilight has given an indication to birds to get back to their dwelling; the sky turned its tint from bright white to pale yellow. Envisaging the golden color as a symbol of pure love I walked near the sea shore, suddenly a piece of paper came flying towards me, I pepped into it with curiosity, there I could find words which were pretty shaky in appearance, seeing them I could make out that they were hand written by an elderly person. I could slowly grasp the essence of it. It was a letter to god it goes in this way

“To my best friend of my life-The Almighty, I had completed all the tasks that you assigned me in my lifetime now want to meet you, I m just starting from here please receive me when I reach your home”. I was shocked seeing this sentences, I was in a state of confusion whether it is a suicide note. Then with more anxiety I went further into the letter, but it was already half wet and the ink spread through out the paper making it illegible. I folded it and kept in my sack. Something was disturbing my sight on the seashore, a white image moving fast towards the sea. I ran towards it with a great pace and could find an old man marching towards the sea, I pushed him back and asked him why he wanted to move away from the world. He smiled at me and patted me on my back assuring me nothing happened and left away. I was totally confused about what all had happened. The next day I came to the same place expecting that the old man would again appear there, but he didn’t, when I was returning back home I saw this man with a small girl crossing the road, at first sight I thought he was taking the help of the small gal to cross the road, but I was wrong. The truth is, the small gal was blind and also was physically challenged; he was indeed helping her cross the road.

Slowly I followed him; he took the small gal to a building where I could find these words “Swami Vivekananda Trust”. I moved into it and found many such physically and mentally challenged children playing and studying. A dumb and abnormal boy who was about 12 years came to me smiling and was pointing to something. I couldn’t get what he was saying, then suddenly from my back a voice came saying “ He is asking you to take the blessings of lord Krishna’s idol back of you as u are new to this place”. I turned back and noticed a woman with flowers in her hand, she gave the flowers to me and said to visit the lord’s idol before I enter the building, I did it as she said, then I asked her who started this organization and all the whereabouts of it. She said, This is the organization started by “Prashanth dev tagoore” pointing to the man I followed until then, I was astonished when I knew that, a man who wanted to commit suicide is indeed a founder of such a huge charity trust. I briskly walked to the old man and asked him “Sir I m really grateful to meet you can I know the reason for your suicide attempt the other day near the sea?”. He smiled at me saying what all I thought was wrong. He continued “ The other day I didn’t attempt for a suicide as u thought, every Thursday I come to the sea shore with a half written letter and a hand kerchief with me”. I knew something about that letter but what is this handkerchief, was curious in finding that. He started to explain me the story.

He was a businessman in his youth, he used to bring pieces of foreign cloth from countries like Burma, China, and Philippines, and used to make extensive garments from them and sold it at profit. One day he encountered a huge loss in his business and in due course his mills were sealed forever, he was just left with a handkerchief that he brought from China. He decided not to live anymore because the humility he was facing from the society was unbearable, he started writing a letter to god saying he cant live anymore and before he could complete the letter he threw it on the seashore and ran towards the sea to move away from the world forever. But a hand pushed him towards the shore saying u have no right to kill yourself, “god is the one who brought you into this world and god only has the right to kill you”.when he turned back he could see a young girl who was physically challenged and was pointing out to herself and was saying” Sir I m totally deprived of everything have no hands to catch articles no proper legs to run and chase my targets if I know the reason of living why cant you sir”. Tears rolled out from him he then decided to set up a new industry and compensate his losses and there by also started the organization in the name of “Swami Vivekananda Trust” where in helping the physically and mentally challenged was the prime motive of the trust. So from then on every Thursday he writes the same letter which he did years ago and would throw it and leave a handkerchief in the sea to make him remember the incident which changed his life.

Listening to all this I decided one thing in my life, one statement registered in my life forever “ Life is not to just live and let live it’s a wonderful boon given to us by god to know its true meaning and help others know what it means in the real sense”. Incidents just cant be thrown apart as memories but should be taken as instances of our moral and ethical development, the incident which I encountered is the best example of learning morals from it. Thanks to that instance of my life, which made me a complete human being by knowing the true meaning of living.

Change The Perception

The day when I would be in a position where people extol for my success, the day where there is no further scope of any worries, that day I would change my motive of living, what did I do until then was just to make myself satisfy my needs, but what I do from then should influence people’s life, altruism should become one of my traits, I don’t believe in helping people but I rely on motivating people to imbibe in them the quality of hard work. I want to change the fate of people who have been for ages immersed in the cave of paucity. Want to erase the thoughts of fortune from the minds of talented youth by inculcating in them the statement “Hard work is the brick which build the edifice of fortune”. Want to remove the words hunger and illiteracy from the lexicon of living. May be what all I dream is impracticable but motivating people against some erroneous thinking may create at least a way for the countries bright future.

People are sometimes more cautious on what they do they just think of their living rather than their future. Yes I m talking of those who are more inclined towards the money they get for selling their right to vote. Money is the prime motive of them but they never ever have a thought that they are ruining their own life for the sake of one day’s living. They just tend to move in the night without a candle light and ultimately lock themselves in the cages of darkness. They don’t think that the people they lift up to make him sit on the thrown are indeed pushing them beneath to prosper in their own life. We cannot blame on the government for its deeds because we are the one who have made the so-called regime; we are solely responsible for giving them the status of power. I want to change the thinking of the people for building a prosperous realm.

Youth are the pillars of the nation, of course they are, but when the pillars don’t involve in carrying the burden of the building, its sure to crumple. Swami Vivekananda’s principles are long been left out and forgotten. Youth are totally immersed in their own life’s embellishment, love is one such word which changed its meaning when it entered into the narrow hearts of today’s youth. Love is such a great feeling, which our patriots once had on our nation. Meaning of true love can be learned from our parents it self, there is no fault in craving for a love of a person, but we need to know the true meaning of it before we practice it. India once considered being a symbol of true cultural heritage has now lost its legacy. Imbibing foreign traits is not at all a wrong idea, but blurring our culture by dodging away from the morals is like stabbing ourselves to prove our bravery. Youth should step forward to educate the illiterates, should help people who are living in dire poverty financially and ethically. Lets us protect ourselves from being carried away by attractive foreign elements. Let us give importance to values rather than dollars. Reading this may not excite you with inspiration but I m sure it will sow a seed of thinking in your mind.

The True Rationale of Living

What did I do to hang me with a rope of torments, what did I commit to poke me with the needles of anguish, what I ever did to starve me without a sweet counter. Dreams that I dreamt are far away from my reach, wishes that I aspired are disparaging me of my failure. What happened to my life’s horizon which I visualized every now and then. Oh god please release me from the thoughts of my failures harden my mind to be head strong towards my objectives, strengthen my soul to compete with the unexpected, give me a morale to swim forward to hit the hill of queries. Regretting myself I closed my room’s door with a shut and went towards the darkness beside my house. There in the moonlight a small picture suddenly hit the cornea of my eye, my eyes were not willing to see anything else except that scene. There in the small hut was a small gal trying to catch a fly with all the means she could, she failed badly in all her attempts but during her every attempt she observed carefully how the fly is escaping from her, she could envisage what would be the future move of the fly. This time she tried differently she had an eye on one direction and the movement in the opposite. With a big jump she shouted hard that she made it. That shout was the turning point of my life, I knew many things in life due to that girl. I observed the patience in her when she tried attempt after attempt, I could feel the conjecture that she made from her every attempt. Now the same things I practice in my life’s journey. That small girl has changed a man who was a highlighter of failure to an exemplar of achievement.

There are many instance where in a man’s altruism becomes a source of inspiration to others, let me give a real life’s incident which could itself explain what is the motive and reason of living. I saw a person who was in his 30’s passing by a railway crossing with a great pace, at first sight I thought that the person might have been in a hurry to go somewhere, but later I was more worried what was actually going on there. And to my surprise two trains were rushing with a great pace on two adjacent tracks on one of them was the person I saw. I ran towards him to save him, but the moment the train came he disappeared from there. Later when the two trains passed away I saw another girl with him, both of them talking to each other in a sad tone. I couldn’t properly hear what they were discussing, slowely when I went to them and asked them what had actually happened, the man started telling that he actually had come here to commit suicide because he could not bare the tensions in his life, but mean while found this gal who was also ready for a suicide because of her personal problems, he indeed saved her life by pushing her away from the track. I was shocked listening to this, a man who is dejected in his life and has nothing in his mind than to commit suicide has indeed given a life to another lady by saving her. This incident has taught me what humanity is, Trained me that humanity is the foremost attribute that every person should have. What I mean to say is how much we earned or how we prosperd In life is not important, how much space we occupied in peoples hearts is what is important. Lets try to build that humanitarian attribute in ourselves, lets try to wipe away the ignorance in the people who have no knowledge about the other side of darkness that is the sunshine in their life. Live and let live should not be the trait, but we need to teach the real reason of ones living.

Eternal Friendship

Exquisiteness was your attribute, compassionate is your character. How should I express what you are to me, your beloved words imbibed by every atom of my body, lucky I m I should say to receive your sweet compliments you seldom uttered. Dearness in your every word caring in your every action made me mad in every faction. Wasn’t it funny sometimes when I express my feeling saying u could be my dearest darling. Your luminous smile had already surpassed the lightening of a storm. Your features have been conceived in every moment of my life. Looking back my past what I had with me and weigh against what I m today shows a sharp contrast highlighting your influence in every stream of my life. Clouds of time have long been passed but still my heart is not willing to abscond from the memories of you. You may be perplexed sometimes to see me immersed in your thoughts, but my dear you too know that the feeling of we is far better than the thought of me. Please liberate me from the cage of your memories please don’t desert me all alone in the empty land were I cant find you the oxygen of my life. Piles of unending queries are haunting me every moment saying you are the one who have lit the once darkness in my living. How foolish I m thinking about you being away from my life because that doesn’t happen as my soul always stray at your foot prints.

Now that I m flying aimlessly like a kite isolated from its source, I have an iron confidence that I could one day get the grapes on the tree which I once considered to be sour. Achievement is not what I solely want, but I want you my dear to watch and pat me at my success. My life’s dish is incomplete without the taste buds of your friendship. Existence is not that I require in my life nor I would just say that I should be what I want to be, I just want the life where u and your friendship is always with me. Life has many more impediments to come in its way in the near future, but u are the one who are able to burn the confidence fuel in my heart to make my way smooth. I many times imagine a day where I m free from all the torments and can give an allusion to my success as you. I don’t mind what people around me feel but I m very particular what u feel about my approach. Definition of many words in my life have been fulfilled by the inspiration u always provide me. Don’t know whether an storm struck field would ever revive, but I m sure u can stimulate every single vitality of my life. Cant at all predict what is the future but my dear friend u r the exact exemplar of a true friendly nature.

U AND ME

One day my dear I would like to be u, experience all what u did in your life feel the love that u received from me, feel the caring that u experienced from me. What is there in my life without you what would be the word we without me. Confused I m now why is this forsaken feeling drenching me, perplexed I m y are u moving away from my life. Mistakes are neither from me nor from u but happened in the milieu of exchange between us. The day u will move away from me I curse the day to be night all the way. Cant afford to loose u my friend after all u and me are the true meaning of my life. Seasons have passed from the day I heard from you, don’t try telling that there is nothing new.

Busy is the word u utter every moment but cant u judge how I crave for u. please don’t leave me in the dessert of emotions. Because I cant swim the river of howling. Do u remember how we had a beautiful gossip and the smiles we shared. Gone are those days when I was enlightened by your sweet little smile. People are now more inclined to their business than their previous past. Memories cant be forbidden from our lives because they play a very important place in thy life. The names we had once registered in our hearts cant be wiped away by the time, the witty things that we did cant be hided in the blanket of reserve ness . let the future run away at its own speed but I m with u always to guide u the way in the storm of newness. Friend cant be one who always there with you but can be the one whose presence is always felt even if they are apart. Hope one day in the night’s tranquility u remember me, my arms are always stretched to find u in the ocean of memories.

One last word I would like to convey my dear never ever have a thought of loosing me as I always bond u as your life cover. Restless u may become in the race of futures tide, but remember me as an aspirin of your pain. Come my dear lets step forward and make our dreams fulfilled though u there and I m here. God bless each other and our friendship lasts forever.

Success is not proprotional to hard work

“Krushitho nasthi durbhiksham” have u ever heard this saying yes may be u heard it but sometimes there comes an occasion where fruits fall straight from the tree into the hands without any exertion “anxiety is the cause of all suffering” said a well known philosopher but the same anxiety can fetch u what u want in a real scenario. Well let me explain it a bit more clearly. Have u remembered our grandparents saying a story of a crow and the Nightingale, and that of a Ant and a Grasshopper these two stories are a complete contrast to each other in the former one the crow wipes of its responsibilities by laying eggs in the nightingale’s nest, but at the end still succeeds in its objective. But in the latter story the grasshopper wont be able to survive with its laziness.

What’s there with you is not important but what’s used affectively is of prime importance. We have seen many people having colossal skills and knowledge levels, but utterly failing in their routine life have u ever wondered why is this happening that’s only due to lack of proper utilization of resources. People now a days are more inclined towards worldly pleasures rather than the happiness at the climax which they get after proper hard work. There are many instances where in people shout at the instructors saying “ I work very hard day and night think no one works as hard as me but still not able to reach what I m supposed to, the saying hard work is the key to success is not affective in my case”. The main reason for their regret towards hard work is that they don’t plan their work and just casually work what ever comes to their mind. There is a lot of difference between hard work and planned work. Planned work pays off good than simple hard work.

The instance of the crow which I said earlier is a planned work the crow with its tactics planned and layed its eggs in the nightingale’s nest so it could succeed in its objective. Now comes the question what is actually a plan all about and how do we plan, let me explain taking the objective or our aim into consideration what we make a route to fulfill it is what plan all about. We have heard of civil engineers planning a document before the actual construction, in that plan they clearly indicate the overview how they could achieve the construction, in the similar way we have to plan interpreting what steps we take in order to achieve our objective, allocating proper time and prerequisites to each aspect of the objective. Now that we have done with planning and worked accordingly and time has come where we r now ready for the actual outcome of our work. At this instant patience acts as a elixir to our anxiety. We heard our elders saying we should work hard and leave rest to god. If everything u do is primarily oriented towards achieving ur goal then definitely u will taste the success.

“Huh yes I succeeded in what I aspired common lets aim at another target”. These are the words generally we here from people who after piles of strenuous hard work reached their objective. But can they be able to work in the same manner as they did earlier, the answer is a straight ‘NO’. The main reason for this is people wont enjoy the fruits of their success but straightly run away in the thoughts of their next targets. Achieving what u aspire is not the only talent, but relishing and enjoying the success is also a great art, not everyone who succeed relish their success only a few does that. At this point people may say enjoying and thinking about what we achieved is a waste of time what we have to achieve is of prime importance. But enjoying what u achieved makes u more inspired and makes u more head strong towards ur next target it acts as a moral booster to your future objectives.So what I mean to say is planning, working, achieving and enjoying your achievement have equal importance.